Many blogs run a Free for All Friday, so this feature isn't unique by any means. Even Rush Limbaugh has Open Line Fridays, where his listeners help dictate the direction of the show by sharing what is on their minds. For this blog, Free for All Friday is going to start off being about whatever is on my mind at the time. It could have to do with family life, books, television, religion, politics (Did I just mention those two never talk about subjects?) or who knows what else. If this feature becomes popular enough, I would like to see readers directing our Friday conversations. We'll see how it goes.
Today's topic is spurred by two things: my inability to find anything I can sit and watch with my kids on a regular basis, and an article about Collingswood, New Jersey (the home town of TV legend Michael Landon) misplacing a plaque that was dedicated in his honor.
I grew up with shows like Happy Days, Little House on the Prairie, The Brady Bunch, Diff'rent Strokes, and The Waltons. What do these shows have in common? They have strong family units with caring parents--or in the case of Diff'rent Strokes, a caring parent--who deal with the triumphs and tragedies of daily life. On a regular basis these shows provide viewers with some type of lesson. Modern-day counterparts seem more concerned with highlighting the total dysfunction of their families. Even on networks that are family oriented, some shows have self-centered parents who are so concerned with their looks or fulfilling their own dreams that their children are negatively impacted. Though the issues are resolved by the end of the show, why are parents portrayed this way?
One can't help but wonder what messages about authority figures are relayed to children when often times the children manage to outsmart the adults in their lives. There are cases where teachers are seen as argumentative kooks. Fathers are dumb as boxes of rocks--except on those few occasions where they dole out useful advice and declare their love of home and family.
Granted, our world has changed in the past thirty years, and in some ways we wouldn't want to reverse the clock. I still can't help but think, however, that highlighting dysfunction only leads to more of it, because children see this as the norm. They learn to challenge authority when their TV heroes manage it on a regular basis. A tiny part of me also believes that if quality family television from the '70's still existed, the plaque honoring Michael Landon never would have been mislaid.
What do you think? Does quality family TV still exist? Are there shows out there you feel comfortable watching as a family?
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I actually enjoy Suburgatory. It has a slightly snarky air, but it hits on the buttons you talk about: authority has its place (not always right, but not always wrong), and the father acts like a father and the daughter loves and respects him even though she doesn't always agree with him (what teen does?). The parent child relationship actually flourishes because of the way the NYC father and daughter feel like fish out of water in suburbia.
The only thing that seems unrealistic to me (other than the over the top neighbors, who are supposed to be caricatures) is the premise the dad has for moving: he caught his daughter kissing her boyfriend and decided suburbia was a safer place to keep her away from boys. Having lived in suburbia all my life, I can only image the writers have never actually been there if they thought premise made any sense at all.
Hm...quality family TV. My kids are grown but I know a lot of parents buy family movies on DVDs. Quality TV..hm...can't say I can really think of any and that's sad. I love the old stuff but the kids nowadays think it's old-fashioned.
Let's go back even earlier to Ozzie and Harriet and Leave it to Beaver, or Family Affair, where parents, especially fathers ruled the house and the boys obeyed. They did stretch the rules and misbehave, but they still respected their father. Today's show, thank you Disney channel, relies on lack of respect towards parents, parents are viewed as idiots, mothers want to be their friends rather than role models and yes, parents are too busy taking care of themselves to put the best interest of their children first. You never say that on the Brady Bunch or LHOP, The Waltons. Those shows did everything for the betterment of their children. Just because these shows today have everyone living under the same roof does not represent family values.
I saw the listing for Subugatory, but have never seen the show. I'll have to set it up to run on the DVR. The premise for the move does seem silly.
Becky. I agree. Some of the stuff out there is wild.
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Hardly anything is worth watching on TV anymore. I have On Demand with Comcast, yet it's all old stuff, dumb women in danger, or else sophomoric sex stuff, not even funny to me.
Morgan Mandel
http://morganmandel.blogspot.com
No kidding, Morgan. Other than a few Christmas movies on Hallmark, I didn't turn the TV on almost all year in 2011.
Thanks for your comments.
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